"The sixth insight shows us that in order to stay connected to this unlimited source of energy we have to break a psychological cycle we develop in our childhood of how we manipulate others for energy.This is called a control drama.
The first step in the process of getting clear,for each of us,is to bring our particular control drama into full consciousness.Nothing can proceed until we really look at ourselves and discover what we are doing to manipulate for energy.
Each of us must go back into our past,back into our early family life,and see how this habit was formed.Seeing its inception keeps our way of controlling in consciousness.Remember,most of our family members were operating in control dramas themselves,trying to pull energy out of us as children.This is why we had to form a control drama in the first place.We had to have a strategy to win our energy back.It is always in relation to our family members that we develop our particular dramas.However,once we recognize the energy dynamics in our families,we can go past these control strategies and see what is really happening.
Everyone manipulates for energy either aggressively,directly forcing people to pay attention to them,or passively,playing on people's sympathy or curiosity to gain attention.
A person threatening you would be pulling you into the most aggressive kind of drama,the 'intimidator'.
An interrogator is another kind of drama.People who use this means of gaining energy set up a drama of asking questions and probing into another persons world with the specific purpose of finding something wrong,then criticizing this aspect of the others life.
If,on the other hand,someone tells you all the horrible things that are already happening to them,implying perhaps that you are responsible,and that,if you refuse to help,these horrible things are going to continue,then this person is seeking to control at the most passive level,what's called a 'poor me' drama.
The last control drama is one of 'aloofness'.It is the act of withdrawing to look mysterious and secretive.You tell yourself that you're being cautious but what you're really doing is hoping someone will be pulled into this drama and will try to figure out what's going on with you,in the process,giving you energy."
- The Celestine Prophecy
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Recycling energy
"...Everything around us is energy,but each has its own special kind.You have to be open,to connect,to use your sense of appreciation,as in seeing energy fields,but you take this one step further so that you get the sensation of being filled up,a feeling of love.It's not something you make happen,it's something you allow to happen.You have to let go in a sense and let your emotion fill up whatever you are giving energy to (appreciating) and in turn it gives energy back to you in what could be called a recycling of energy."
- The Celestine Prophecy
- The Celestine Prophecy
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Beauty tips
"For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone.
People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anybody.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman whith passing years only grows!"
- Sam Levenson
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day.
For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone.
People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anybody.
Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.
The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, and the beauty of a woman whith passing years only grows!"
- Sam Levenson
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
She does not need you
She prefers the company of wolves and crows
She knows the world nose to nose
She is feral, fierce and unafraid of lightening
She wears a different disguise at every sighting
She can taste you at some distance on the breeze
And with one look release you from your dis-ease
She will shout at you to get you to breathe
For your own sake learn to breathe!
She does not need you x3
She can paint you into or out of your existence
What you call intelligence is merely resistance
She demands that you abandon your defenses
See the world through a brand new pair of lenses
She is warrior, healer, mystic, daughter, mother, lover, sister
She is the magical entrance to this world where we are visitors
She’ll break your heart open and you will howl with joy and wonder
She will then offer your spirit up to the thunder…
She does not need you x3
She would prefer it if you turned off all the lights
Make friends with your shadow in the gathering of twilight
Remove your shoes for the ground you walk on is holy
The ground is as Holy as it is muddy
She is not interested in your opinion
She will never submit to your dominion
But she does invite you to dance until you drop
The old routines that caused you to stop…
She does not need you x3:
We are running out of time
Move your body, change your mind
Plug yourself into the divine
And maybe she will give you a sign
Surrender to the force of her persuasion
Her wildness has a certain contagion
She dares you to cross the vital threshold
Do it now before you are too old
She does not need you x3
- Mark Shepard
She knows the world nose to nose
She is feral, fierce and unafraid of lightening
She wears a different disguise at every sighting
She can taste you at some distance on the breeze
And with one look release you from your dis-ease
She will shout at you to get you to breathe
For your own sake learn to breathe!
She does not need you x3
She can paint you into or out of your existence
What you call intelligence is merely resistance
She demands that you abandon your defenses
See the world through a brand new pair of lenses
She is warrior, healer, mystic, daughter, mother, lover, sister
She is the magical entrance to this world where we are visitors
She’ll break your heart open and you will howl with joy and wonder
She will then offer your spirit up to the thunder…
She does not need you x3
She would prefer it if you turned off all the lights
Make friends with your shadow in the gathering of twilight
Remove your shoes for the ground you walk on is holy
The ground is as Holy as it is muddy
She is not interested in your opinion
She will never submit to your dominion
But she does invite you to dance until you drop
The old routines that caused you to stop…
She does not need you x3:
We are running out of time
Move your body, change your mind
Plug yourself into the divine
And maybe she will give you a sign
Surrender to the force of her persuasion
Her wildness has a certain contagion
She dares you to cross the vital threshold
Do it now before you are too old
She does not need you x3
- Mark Shepard
Monday, July 27, 2009
I've come to take you with me
even if i must drag you along
but first must steal your heart
then settle you in my soul
i've come as a spring
to lay beside your blossoms
to feel the glory of happiness
and spread your flowers around
i've come to show you off
as the adornment in my house
and elevate you to the heavens
as the prayers of those in love
i've come to take back
the kiss you once stole
either return it with grace
or i must take it by force
you're my life
you're my soul
please be my last prayer
my heart must hold you forever
from the lowly earth
to the high human soul
there are a lot more
than a thousand stages
since i've taken you along
from town to town
no way will i abandon
you halfway down this road
though you're in my hands
though i can throw you around
like a child and a ball
i'll always need to chase after you
- Rumi
but first must steal your heart
then settle you in my soul
i've come as a spring
to lay beside your blossoms
to feel the glory of happiness
and spread your flowers around
i've come to show you off
as the adornment in my house
and elevate you to the heavens
as the prayers of those in love
i've come to take back
the kiss you once stole
either return it with grace
or i must take it by force
you're my life
you're my soul
please be my last prayer
my heart must hold you forever
from the lowly earth
to the high human soul
there are a lot more
than a thousand stages
since i've taken you along
from town to town
no way will i abandon
you halfway down this road
though you're in my hands
though i can throw you around
like a child and a ball
i'll always need to chase after you
- Rumi
Dancing
Why struggle with Life when It took me to a dance now ?
Yes, it's true, I don't know all the steps and this makes me feel a bit unsecure and afraid, but hey, i close my eyes and i follow the music in my heart...
Yes, it's true, I don't know all the steps and this makes me feel a bit unsecure and afraid, but hey, i close my eyes and i follow the music in my heart...
Rainbow
What is that I am looking for....? What's Life in the end...?
How can I deny the Sorrow when it was so many times here with me ?
And again, how can I deny Happiness when it was in my heart...?
Maybe what i am looking for is the very (in)tangible balance between the two.
Maybe it's like the Rainbow: it cannot be without the Sun nor without the Rain...a Smile and a Tear...
How can I deny the Sorrow when it was so many times here with me ?
And again, how can I deny Happiness when it was in my heart...?
Maybe what i am looking for is the very (in)tangible balance between the two.
Maybe it's like the Rainbow: it cannot be without the Sun nor without the Rain...a Smile and a Tear...
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